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The Queen's Code for Life ~ Workshop


Men Follow Your Lead. Learn How to Be a Queen and Be Treated as One.

There’s a reason why men think women are complicated – we are! We at PAX have learned that every woman has many, interactive aspects to her femininity.

Nicknamed the “Queen Course” by graduates, this clarifying and defining workshop shows women how to bring out the best in themselves. It focuses on those regal qualities that allow us to be happy, fulfilled, and admired while bringing energy to those around us.

The qualities of a Queen inspire men to be our heroes and have them be influenced by us. Most importantly, men generously provide what the Queen needs for her vision of how great life can be.



“When I first started studying men, I had no intention of learning about women. But men are experts in femininity – because they love it, they need it and they value it. This workshop teaches women how to honor themselves as men see them: beautiful, powerful, essential and magical.”– Alison Armstrong



Anything as complicated as being female usually comes with an instruction book, but since we weren’t provided an operating manual to be our best selves and perform at the top of our game, we often sabotage our own efforts to be nurtured and empowered.

  • We have needs, but most of us put them aside in deference to the needs of others. We overvalue self-sacrifice and pay dearly for it.
  • We have the life-giving ability to nurture and provide for others, but feel selfish or weak when we’re the ones who need nurturing or help. When we go without, we become resentful and can appear cold and hard.
  • We are challenged by our own limited ability to receive. We say, “No” to show our independence and self-sufficiency, and are left feeling resentful and alone.
  • When we are available to receive, we can get run-over, not knowing how to set boundaries with people we care about and not wanting to hurt or offend. We can feel like a doormat, fearful of being taken advantage of, fearful of getting in trouble, and eventually giving up because we lack the skill and ability to be receptive.


“I am so glad I experienced this workshop. I realize it’s about taking care of myself and fully showing up for life. It gave me the tools on how to be great. I can start to create myself. I am excited to do this for myself so I can give back to the world by being the best I can be.” – Ann Callahan, Airline Pilot



The Queen's Code for Life


Live Workshop for Women Only!

Lead by our PAX Certified Partners, live workshops can provide the in-person connection, group exercises and concentrated learning and growth.




Register into a 3-Day Women-Only Live Workshop with one payment of $1,195 or 7 monthly payments of $176.

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Need Help or Have Questions?

Our Personal Consultants are happy to answer questions and help you make the wisest decision for you:

Toll Free: 800.418.9924 ext. 875 (International: 720.935.0665) or email: Consultant@understandmen.com

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